Why when adults ask where their parents are the child cusses the adult out?

Ok i have a friend who was in chat one night and 2 underage girls was in there showing themselves off on cam ...when that friend asked where were their parents...the girls cussed her out! So when the parent did come on the mic...she was told about what her child was doing but refused to believe it! Some parents don't know what their child will do when they are not at home or gone to bed!

Answer:
This is why internet use should not be allowed and restricted to children! Some parents are just in denial- and bad parents. Those poor children are going to get hurt.
bad parents ?
I betcha the girl thought that your friend was a stalker or something just wanting to know where she lived, or perhaps the girl just took it as an insult, as if she thought your friend meant, "You look too young to be doing that."
Because parents dont know the correct term for whoop that a**
maybe because the girls want to do things that their parents don't approve. they think they are adult and want no supervision and once another friend spots them they are like, your acting like my mom or dad and i already have those and they already lecture me. then they get POed that the friend is a "rat" or "tattle tale". they just don't like being monitored and told what to do. think of it as criticism, constructive or not, these girls like the attention from the opposite sex and not the lectures. the parents may feel their kid knows best because they taught the best but sometimes its one ear and out the other or they just never got taught but the parents let them do whatever they want.
Very True!! Bad parenting!
Unfortunately, most parents live in denial--for several reasons, including the fact that if they admit the problem, they're supposed to fix it.
well im 16 so i might be able to answer this..although im underage i dont disrobe myself on cam. or do anything to disrespect myself...they might have cussed your friend out because to them its none of her business those rebellious teens dont care who you are they dont give a fck they cuss you out if you call them out teens now a days dont care they do whatever they want trust me i know i see these things at school everyday drugs, sex talk, making deals..etc...their parents dont want to realize that their kids are wild and out of control "NOT MY LITTLE GIRL" they dont want the truth to shine out like a flash light in the dark...they think to themselves "how did i go wrong"...how didnt they go wrong lack of attention and love..thats why they look for it somewhere else either in drugs, sex, or in your case porno i bet those girls felt loved.. i hope it was worth it i doubt it
spoiled kids. i can see the picture . parents that think their kids are one way but they´re another.bad parents for real.
This is true in the society we live in today. Parents need to ask questions first and react later. I have 3 daughters and you best believe I don't know everything that they do. You can't put anything past them.
Hit Ctrl+Print Screen and e-mail the parents a screenshot of their girls. That should get their attention. VERY poor parenting.
im a kid and i think the internet should not be banned to us like a recent user stated. its the kid not the internet,
I've seen a lot of responses to this that are blaming poor parenting, no parenting, parents in denial, and on and on.

I'm a parent, with a daughter who has done all kinds of things online that I had no control over. I am an excellent parent-and have given her and her sisters loving attention, rules, support for their dreams and goals, and everything else since they were conceived. That included making sure there was only ONE household computer and it was in a public use room, telling them about sexuality, drugs, you name it, from an appropriate (and early) age, and monitoring what they do and who they do it with.

Since the divorce, and their dad-who never grew up-had them a couple nights a week, everything changed. No rules at his house, no monitoring, computer in a back room with doors closed and everyone with their own passwords-because he hated "being controlled" and it's too much trouble for him to actually think about long term consequences.

Then grandpa, living in a more innocent time, gets her a laptop to make her schoolwork easier and nobody supports mom in making sure there are rules about using it.

I was the only one trying to limit things to a safe level-and getting cussed out by my own daughter, who used to be loving and sweet-whenever I tried to set a boundary of any kind. So I became "the enemy". She's moved out-expects no limitations of any kind, but still expects me to provide for her. There is absolutely no help from any source-legally, she can run away and basically do anything she wants unless she gets herself arrested. THEN someone might call in the parents.

It's not "bad parenting". Teens would not have dreamed of acting this way in the past, no matter what their parents did or didn't do.

This is a result of kids being able to literally walk down any virtual "dark alley" on the planet, with no restrictions and very little ability for the parents to do a thing without the teen's consent.
hey im 14 and not aloud to go in chat rooms. im not aloud on AIM eather.. i can only email my friends.. no my spece no nothin.. on my computer i have someting my mom put on there that records every word i type every i look at every game i play and all that stuff. so my parents know exsacally what im doing. some of my friends say its "uncool" to have that on your computer or to not be able to have a my space but i tell them there uncool because im not the one going out taking drugs but anywaiiz back on the topic of the chats and parents. i think that all computers should have a program installed when you first buy the pc so everyone is safe and if somthing ever happends with a sex predetor or a threat made over instant messanger and the police need to look for somthing the proof is right there. i think parents are just starting to become more aware of things on the computer and should get tracking programs to follow up on what your child is doing...
Because they havent had a proper A** Whopping!!

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