Why do you mothers get so upset at your child that you cry?
Answer:
Let us not judge. Motherhood is an exhausting everlasting experience like no other. Many moms have endless sleepless nights resulting in sleep deprivation. When that happens, we are not in the right state of mind, we just muttle through doing the very best that we can. We love our children more than most people can ever know. When we love our children that much, we want what's best for them. We have expectations-realistic or not. When our children test our already thin boundries over and over again and we are running on fumes as it is, our emotions climb. Anyone who has ever been a mother should know all about this. Mothers get a little crazy sometimes. But it is those same emotions that make us great mothers. Hope that answered your question.
huh?? i only get upset and cry when my babies are in pain or i don't know what's going on with how they're feeling...not becuase they make me upset...
Sometimes children go through really difficult phases. I don't cry when they can see me, but I do get very frustrated with my daughter sometimes who is 2 1/2. She can be very demanding, attention seeking, and destructive. So yes, it does get frustrating. A lot of the time she will undo what I have just finished. My other 2 were not like this, so it's a big adjustment. We have some good days and bad days.
this one requires me to be more stern which is difficult for me so it's very upsetting.
I love my youngest daughter though, and always try to let that show through. She gets plenty of hugs and affection, even on her bad days!
Don't you think crying out of fustration is better than yelling or spanking your kids? It hasn't happen much but there has been a few times a broke down in tears after dealing with my 3 1/2 yr olds meltdowns that that she has, some of which will last for hours on ends.(Special needs, is sweet but can be VERY diffucult at times)
maybe because one get frustrated.
frustrated that things didnt come up with what u want to happen,
frustrated that your child didnt comply with your expectation,
frustrated because you think you are not a good mom.
what to do if one experience it?
just be happy and thankful for you have a kid. remember that others pervently pray for one but hasnt given. dont set expectation and dont be hard in oneself.
It's hormones.
When you have a 16-year-old, you'll know the answer to this.
It's my thought that you should never show that kind of weakness to your children. I have quite a few emotional scars from seeing my mother cry. Always try to present a strong front. Put the child in time out, so that maybe you can take one to. Go and release the tears in the privacy of your own room, where your children can't see. Let you kids known it's OK to cry when sad, or hurt, and make your shoulder available should they need it. Just try to avoid them seeing you cry.
Crying is the last thing to do if your children are pushing the limits. Have consequences on the ready, give them warnings, then enforce them.
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