Why doesn't she understand the way I feel?
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This is totally normal, but if she is ready to move on you need to respect that. You can't force someone to love you and you wouldnt want a relationship where the other person doesnt truely love you. You have learned from your mistakes and it hurts. Dont close yourself up to your next relationship, it wont be fair to that girl. Take some time to heal and grow, venture out, join some clubs that do sports or something, meet new people and when you are ready again date, but remeber to leave yourself open to a new love and you will find it :)
Sounds like you've suddenly grown up. Congratulations! (I don't mean that sarcastically). Sounds like fatherhood will really suit you. Keep going and stick together - you'll get there.
She can't understand because she is really hurting right now. The cheating and losing the baby are both really painful and she has to deal all at once. Looking at you reminds her that you didn't think she was good enough and it reminds her of the baby that is gone. You both feel very normal emotions and if she is the one you want, talk with her and give her time, this is a lot for anyone to take.
Yes, definitely. She is taking two different and opposite sides. it doesn't make sense. just ask her why to let go. And if she doesn't understand, just tell her what you stated here.
" I am so deeply in love with her. I did love her a lot even during our rough times, but once we found out we were going to have a baby, an whole new emotion took over me. I looked at her sleeping in the morning and she was the most beautiful person I had ever seen. I felt her belly grow slightly during the 3 months and I was there to help her through all the sickness when I could. I guess what I am trying to say is that I fell in love with her more deeply than anyone, because I knew she would be my child's mother and the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with."
That should help her understand. And ask her how can she not understand that she and the baby is are the most beautiful , and most meaning ful people in your life. She will, prbably say she does understand now that you said it.
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