Hey, I Need Some Advice?

okay, me and my boyfriend had sex a while ago, and I need help on what to do if Im pregnant. My plan was NOT to get an abortion and NOT to put it up for adoption. Im not going to tell my parents either. Im just goin to run away or something so my boyfriend wont get disowned by his family (he has issues with them). But yah ill just leave and make money some way like washing peoples cars or something, or doing some "street work". I promise im not a ****! Its just if i tell my parents they will make me get an abortion, and if I tell my bf, he will tell his parents and he will get disowned. I just really need some help. IM ONLY 13!

Answer:
You can't even work if you are only 13. Please call a pregnancy home. You can live there until you have the baby for free. They can't make you give up the baby either. It is yours until at least 3 days after birth(dependent on the state you are in), unless you choose not to keep it. Your parents don't even have to know where you are. You can just leave and go there.

If you wait long enough (3 mo )to tell your parents they cannot make you have an abortion, no Dr. would perform one on you!! The baby is fully formed! They would have to just deal with it. Or you could call or email a talk show(Oprah, Dr. Phil, Montel). Tell them your story. That is a great way to break it to them.

Please consider other families that cannot have babies!! I am one of those!! If you give it up it will find you later and understand since you were 13. I would! If you want your child to have a great life that you can't give it yet, just consider it.

Good luck sweetie!! I will be praying for you.

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