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No its not wrong just as long as you tell her in a good way. Good luck
no
no not as long as she is not the one supporting and caring for the other 2.
Nope if you are on your own & supporting your children tell her to back off, if you live w/ her or she helps support than dont bite the hand that feeds you
No, it is your life and if you want a 3rd baby than that is your decision not hers.
tell her to f* off not back off
She is just looking out for your and her own best interest.
If you can afford them, it is fine, but maybe she dont want to end up raising them, or having to give you money all the time.
NO, unless you are living in her house or are still a minor. Why are you not married after 2 children?
No. But understand how she feels, and don't expect her to be as supportive as she may have been in the past with your other babies.
no,she needs to back off.its your life and obviously u are grown enough.enjoy your pregnancy to the fullest!
Yes, you apparently are doing something wrong, you are responsible for two kids and can't speak up for yourself? She must know something you don't want to know or see.
If you live by your self and pay your own bills then what's the problem Are you unfit parents or something
absolutly not. if you are having your 3rd. child you probally know what to expect. and as long you and your boyfriend are prepared for it. it really shouldnt be your mothers concern.
if you are over 18 and taking care of the 2 you already have than she really don't have much to say about the matter.. but i might find another way to say it other than 'back off' =)
No it's not as long as you are in a stable relationship and she's not looking after and paying for your other two children.
No, it's not wrong. She isn't the one having the baby you are, and your boyfriend are. So honestly as bad as it may sound. It's really non of her business what you two want to do.
The same has happened to me. On my third, and with each one got the same response, no one said congrats and no one really looked happy with it. My husband is older than I am, and no one thought from the begining we'd even make it. Their response has always been..OH.. didn't think you wanted any, or another... So really keep in mind that it's not what they think it's how you and your partner feel. What you want, and what you do with your life. I'm sure after awhile your mother would enjoy a new grandchild, if not, I"m very sorry for that.
But you two enjoy and take care.
Hi Shanna, She's probably upset that you two have not marry yet. Your on your third baby,and know ring. What's up with that?
Anyway,you can tell your mom to back off nicely.
Clowmy
No way. We are having our fifth and my MIL kept talking about how hard it was going to be and why are we having so many and why we didn't just stop and bla bla bla. I had to keep her behaviour from the other kids because they are excited, they want another baby and I didn't want her to kill that mood. I finally told her that if she couldn't accept the fact that we are going to have as many children as we wanted, she didn't have to visit or call. Now she just doesn't talk about the baby at all. She acts like I'm not even pregnant. I actually prefer it that way. It will be hard enough in the first few months after he's born without her talking like he's unwanted, and the other kids would remember that too as they are old enough. It's a shame that people can't just be happy for your decisions, it's not like they are paying to raise the baby so they need to mind their own business, and I do not think it's wrong to tell them so. Also, if it's the marriage thing definitely tell her to mind her own business. You don't need to be married to raise children together, you just need to know the realtionship is going to last. Marriage is overrated. What's the divorce rate now? over 50%? I would rather be unmarried in a good relationship raising my children than married, miserable and raising miserable children. Your children, your relationship, your funding = your business. Good Luck
Go right ahead, I have to tell my mom that too. She won't leave me alone about negative talk (I'm 23 weeks w/ #2 and not married).
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