I have a boyfriend, he is quite a bit older than me. i am 14, and he is 22. my parents will flip if they ...?
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You are so naive, Your parents are gonna place statutory rape charges on him and frankly i don't blame them. That is ridiculous.
He's more than likely just using you and apparently its for sex, my god i never thought about sex till i was 18 and i regret every bit of it i was never stupid enough to get knocked UP!! Tell your parents so that this can be resolved!
He should be in jail...
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You are a child. He is a RAPIST! If you are indeed pregnant, he will be going to prison for 20 years. And you will need to decide what to do about the baby. You need to tell your parents NOW so that they can help you.
Wow... you're in quite a pickle. Do your parents know you're dating him? That's called statutory rape even if you consented. Good luck.
well they will flip out because you are so young and having a baby.just tell them you are pregnant if you are going to have this baby.if your boyfriend will be there for you and your baby your parents will make do the best they can for you and him.good luck to you you and your boyfriend you are lucky to be in love and having a child.also your boyfriend needs to take good care of you if you are pregnant.he needs to take you to a doctor and keep you healthy and provide good food for you.
Sweetie you are so young ! and your boyfriend (depending on where u live) could be charged with sex with a minor . You have to tell your parents (there gonna find out) but you need all the support system you can get. I just hope your parents like your boyfriend enough to not press charges on him . Good Luck Honey !
ever heard of statutory rape... because that is what is going on.
Your parents are'nt the only ones that will flip! You are 14 he is 22... the law will have something to say about that.it's considered statutory rape in their eyes even if you don't like it. Fourteen is too young to even know what true love is!!! He is taking advantage of you... go to your parents and talk to them, give them a chance to help you..
I think they will 'flip' out more when they find out you are pregnant at 14, regardless of how old the boyfriend is.
He should have been more responsible, and as far as I know he can be in a lot of trouble with the police as you are under age.
Tell your parents as soon as possible, they will help you.
I am 19 years old and couldn't even imagine trying to "get with" a 14 year old. what was he thinking?? what a gross man. you don't know any better and are just looking for love, trust me i was 14 before. I hope he goes to jail. my lil sis has some girl friends that are dating older guys lik this and i know the guys ffrom school. i tell them to their face that they are gross andd then they clami that they didn't know how old they were
You are a kid he is an adult...you need to tell your parents right away that you think you are pregnant. You have your whole life to life...you need to fix this right away. Get rid of him. He has no morals.
wow you really don't see whats wrong with this picture. this guy should know better!
If he is dating you behind your parent's back, then he KNOWS what he is doing is illegal. Define "love."
You say you've been together for 18 months? So, you started dating when you were 13... and possibly even 12?
Girl, you are being used. You should watch Dateline "To Catch a Predator."
Does that really sound okay? You do not have the fortitude to raise a child, and neither does he- he cannot even make decisions that will not land him in jail.
Your parents SHOULD flip. And maybe, they should be spending more quality time with you. How are you "dating" this guy? You just not show up at home, and they are okay with it?
You can go to a crisis pregnancy center, and they will help you.
Oh hunny, i know you came here for help sop i'm going to give you some. First of all, don't flip until you find out if you are or aren't. YES - your parents will flip out, I don't care how cool they are or not, your still just a baby to them. The law does concider this rape, and he would go to jail. I understand that you are in love, love has no time limit, however, for the safety of BOTH of you - you two need to stop seeing each other NOW. Believe me, i am farmiiliar with a similar situation, he went to jail. She was 15 - he DID not love her after he spent 5 years in jail. Good luck sweety.
first off that is rape, second what are you thinking!! i hope for everyone's sake you are not pregnant, i cant believe that a 22 year old would take advantage of you like that.
you need to leave him now! he could very well go to jail for sleeping with you.
i take that back he should go to jail for sleeping with you!
that is illegal and some would say he is taking advantage of you. well, he's 22 get him to buy a pregnancy test... i hope he has a job that doesn't include dating under age girls. (sigh) be careful 'cause you only live once and getting through high school should be important to you. i really hope you're not pregnant. if the test turns out negative maybe consider dating some one closer to your age and hold off on the sex. please try to think about your future, you might think you know what you're doing but you need more life experience trust me. I'm 28 I'm sometimes i make mistakes but I'm old enough to deal with the problems and live with them. i hope you get through everything okay and please leave older men alone they will just use you.
A 14 yr old girl with a 22yr old man This is just sick and sad.
whats wrong with him that he can't get a girl his own age?
There must be something wrong that he has to have sex with a 14 yr old girl?? he should be put in jail!
and you little girl have one big problem. your the silly girl pregnant with his baby.
I hope your parents do find out.
Honey all i can say is you knew the consequences and so did he! I have a friend that got his underage girl friend pregnant and her mother pressed charges. He isn't even allowed to see his son or come in any contact with the girl for 5 yrs. They were also in love. Now the baby has to grow up for the next 5yrs without his father. Even though the father wanted to be there for his family he isn't allowed to. It's terrible and it breaks my heart but that's the law. Your boyfriend knows better, he knows what can happen. If your parents find out how old he is more than likely he will be sitting in jail. Since your underage you can't do anything without your parents consent so you have to tell them.
You're 14 and have already been with him for 18 months? That means he was 20 and dating you at 12.this is called rape, honey. He should go to jail because what he's doing is illegal. At the very least, you need to stop seeing him. The age difference at this stage of your life is too big for this to be considered an equal relationship, no matter how mature you think you are.
Tell your parents about the situation and I pray that you aren't pregnant.
ok honey, my sister was in this same situation ( except for being pregnant) they told my parents and everything was fine...they are now getting married and are expecting my nephew in about two months...they were 15 and he was 20 and now they are 21 and he is26 ...good luck
You have been dating this guy since you were 12 1/2 years old. You poor child this guy totally took advantage of you. shame on him to do this emotional damage to a child. tell your parents and give the baby up for adoption. I'm sorry honey but your boyfriend is a rapist and took advantage of a little girl very sad. He will probably go to jail too. My prayers are with you and the baby.
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It sucks to be you miss ,,,,I think I am so grown up.Deal with it!!
Take a pregnancy test and tell your parents right away if you are. They might flip put, but you are their daughter and they just want the best for you. If they seem upset it's only because they wanted "the best" for you.
I'm a little worried about a 22 year old man being with a 14 year old. You know he could go to jail and end up on the sex offender registry. That means for the rest of his life, people will be able to go online and see his picture, address, and it will say stautory rape. Trust me, you won't feel the same about him 4 years from now when you're legal.
I know you don't view yourself as a child, but you really are still.
If you're not pregnant, then you really need to use this scare as a warning and stop having sex with him.
If you love him so much, then you wouldn't want him to be in jail would you? Also, being that you've been together since you were 12 or13, then his charges would be even worse and viewed as child molestation and 2nd degree rape.
If you love him, quit having sex with him until you're old enough to keep him out of jail.
I can tell you honestly, that if you were my daughter, i'd have his butt turned in so fast. What he's doing is VERY wrong.
I hope the best for you! I understand how it is to be young and in love, he is waaaayyyy to old for you, but if u love him and he loves u then i hope it works out. But in reality most older boys (im picky at who i call men) have a young girl who does anything they say because it easier to control their mind. But hopefully this isnt the case! As for your parents, they will be mad, im 18 & im sure my mother will be mad when i tell her im pregnant. If hes 22 he should b working and have somewhere for you all 2 live so good luck
my cousin was pregnant at 15 andher bf was 21 he is in jail and iwll be for 15 yrs.but it also depends on the states...my aunt and uncle are helping her though you have to tell them they will find out sooner or later
do your parents know that you are dating this guy ?
you should take a pregnancy test you can go to the dolor store and get one or you can even go to plane parent hood and have one done for free if it turns out that you are pregnant you really should tell your parents.the people at plan parent hood will also give you some advice on what to do as well so you should go there.
Oh Honey, sounds like you have got your self in a rut. When your parents find out dont be surprised if hey press charges on him for statutory rape. (at least they should) you need to take a pregnancy test and tell your parents so you can start getting the medical treatment you need. You are so young to have a baby, if you are pregnant, you have a rough road ahead of you honey, I am not trying to be mean, it is the truth, I know first hand, I had my son when I was 14 and it was NOT EASY! The best of luck to you and I will keep my fingers crossed that the test comes back negative.
Honey, first of all, what are you doing with a man who is EIGHT YEARS your senior? He's not even in high school, probably out of school. You are barely in high school. Second, you need to talk to your parents, like, yesterday. They will flip out because the father of your possible baby is so much older than you and you're only 14! In most states, age of consent is at least 16 for someone between 18 and 21, at 22 the age of consent is 18. I don't think you completely understand what is going on here. That is considered statuatory rape. By law, he forced you have sex using his advanced age. I know you care about him. You need to talk to your parents. Outside wanting to strangle the guy, they will help you. They need to know because they are also responsible for your baby until you are 18 or emanicpated and you can't be emancipated until you are at least 16. All I ask is that you talk to your parents NOW so they can help you figure out if you are pregnant or not. Everything will be okay. Trust me.
OK Honey! I am 19 and my fiance is 34! Yes 19 is different than 14 understand that part. I have been through alot at 19. I had to grow up quicker than most teenagers because of things life threw at my family and I had to basically support myself all throughout high school. I've been in a serious relationship before my relationship now. I was also pregnant by my fiance. I had a miscarriage. People on here are right. At 14 you think your inlove to the fullest. I thought I was and the guy I was with was my first and I ended up being with him for 4 1/2 years. I'm not trying to be mean by saying he was looking for sex. You cant help who you love and if he honestly loves you then he will be there for you and your child. When you tell your parents you are going to be scared. I was scared to tell my parents but they were only mad for a few days. No matter what your parents say dont let anyone influence you to do something that you dont want to do. But do understand that if you want to be a good mother you cant go out with your friends every time they call. You cant but you clothes when you have to buy pampers and formula. Hopefully your parents will get to know this guy and then they will let you raise your child with him. If they feel he will be around for you and the baby they will understand that you are going to need more than just help money wise. Your going to need a companion for emotional support. If you need anyone to talk to email me @ lorisbarbie@yahoo.com
Your boyfriend has a good chance of being arrested for rape!! He is too old and now you are pregnant so it is possible for him to be arrested and charged with a sex crime if convicted he can be forced to be on a sexual predator list and to always have to notify the police of where he lives and some people will shun him because of it. Thats why your parents told you he was too old for you and you know they did. You better be hoping you are not pregnant girl if you love your boyfriend.
He should be in jail and you need to tell your parents and let them help you out...
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