My wife is pregnant and she keeps on complaing that she is fat what is the best way to make her feel better?
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if you keep telling her that it's healthy for her to gain the recommended amount of weight and that you still find her just as beautiful and attractive, then you're on the right path! But don't just say those things, show her. My husband told me I was beautiful all the time but I wished he wouldve SHOWN me that he felt that way- kiss her, hold her, and make love to her as you have always and she will gain her confidence back. And eat healthy right along with her!
The body is naturally supposed to gain weight to protect and insulate the baby., as well as to safeguard against starvation by storing energy in the extra adipose tissue. also, people expect pregnant women to be heavy, and regardless, the hormones make pregnant women glow and look beautiful so tell her just not to worry about it, and that you love her no matter what.
I'm guilty of this...My husband just reminds me that I have a baby in me and I'm supposed to gain weight. It helps a little. He also likes to take me out so he can...as he says "show me off" it makes me feel good about myself.
Whenever I said I was fat, when I was pregnant, my husband would say. "You're not fat, you're pregnant and you are beautiful." Always made me feel better.
Tell her that she may feel fat but she certainly doesn't look fat and you have never been more attracted to her. Back it up with a backrub or some other act of physical affection and it should help. You can't make her not feel that way but you can make her feel like you love her and think she is beautiful. (Do her a favor, say it even if it feels like a lie.)
Have her suck your cockk make you a sandwich and shut the fuke up!
There is not much you can do it is alot to do with hormones and obcioulsy her rtomach getting bigger, It is ahrd for women to lose that control over there body. I would just give her lots of comliments on how good se look and that you think she is attractive whne she is pregant and so on.
have sex with her sister and tell you;ll do it again if show dont stay fit. being pregnant isnt an excuse to let your self go
Compliment her constantly! Even if she comes back with negative remarks like "no, I'm not" etc. My fiance complimented me all the time and even though the majority of the time I contested, it made me feel really good. We might not think we look good, but we love hearing that we do, especially with all those hormones going up and down. Just hang in there!
Tell her that she was hot before the pregnancy and that she is even hotter pregnant!
tell her the truth.....shes a heffer.....no im just kidding tell her shes supposed to gain wieght is normal.o and tell her u love her.
It can be very depressing seeing your body in a whole new light...But like most have said it is the baby and she'll have the rest of her life to get her figure back!!
My husband just tells me I'm beautiful no matter what..It's hard for me to feel beautiful but this isn't for me it's for our beautiful daughter..then that makes me happy!
Just reassure her that you think she is beautiful. Sometimes emotions get he best of women. Maybe take her to the maternity store to buy a nice new shirt or something that will make her feel better. Women always like new clothes and always like constant reassurance that our husbands find us beautiful no matter what.
this is so hard for us gals.. when i weight my self i see the scale go up ever so slowly i tell myself .. it isnt you it is baby growing ..
yourt wife should gain 25 pounds ,
i would love if my hubby would walk with me ,, maybe you can do this with her so she will really know she is heathy and trim under the baby
Tell her she's right.
Remind your wife that she is pregnant. She just feeling emotional right now. Comfort her anyway possibly and let her know that she still is beautiful know matter how she feels.
I agree with lilbit.Remind your wife that she is pregnant
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