I hv twins boys of 2.5 years. The have become very agressive and also become very stubborned. How to resolve?
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One has to wonder how they resached this stage. It all depends on what they have grown accustomed to. If they know that they won't be disciplined then they will do any and everything that their little minds fall on, but if they know there are punishments for their actions then they would do the right things. You have to start to let them know what is acceptable and what is not and let them know if they choose to do the later they will be penalised. It's not too late....if we love them we must discipline them.
We've all herd of the terrible two's.and as a mother myself, it really doesn't go away..lol..it's the age..why we will never really know, even though we have theories. Have your boys been allowed to watch violence..(may not be reason but can attribute to behaviour), have they seen adults fight? Children are sponges and they absorb everything they see and hear, even when we think they are not paying any attention...so my theory is...just love them, discipline them when they need it.
I have a 3 yr old daughter and she bacame a little terror aournd 2.5
I could only imagine 2 little terrors:)
The only thing that worked, and it took a while (6months) was to be firm and not to give in.
At this age they are trying to get away with what ever they can, pushing it further and more trying to get their way. Don't give in and stay firm and strong otherwise they will sence it and push more farther and harder. The aggresive part is just them learning that they can do this too!
They are just learning all of this, all of the things they can and cant do, being stubborn and aggresive is just one more neat trick to them. It is up to you to teach them what is acceptable and what you will and wont tolerate. Hang in there. They don't call it Terrible Twos for nothing ya know! Just wait till theyre 3! lol
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