Child care.?
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Not sure about all that, but it is good for children to be around other kids. It teaches them sharing, patience, and so much more.
The children do have problems with separating from mom if they have not been left with others, but this is a natural thing. They go through this all the time. Just try not to let it bother you so much.
Make sure you thoroughly check on the nursery, make sure they are a good one. No bad reports. Talk to other mothers there at the nursery and ask them about their experiences. They maybe able to tell you what you can expect or what they had happen.
I do not have a child in daycare but I use to work at one for awhile. Your child will not think you abadoned her and be mentally disturbed. It may be hard on her at first, probably harder on you, but its a good time to put her in daycare. Its important that children get sometime of socail interaction before real school
Before you take her to a daycare, "visit" the daycare with her. Show her all the really cool things and cool kids her age. I am sure they have a playground, so everytime you visit, just talk about how the playground is for the big kids who go to daycare. Everytime you are driving and you pass it and you can see the playground, talk it up again. Just keep doing that and I guarantee she will be begging to go play with the other kids and the playground.
I did this with my sister. After a week of passing it two times a day and talking about how big kids go there and get to play there..oh man. She wanted to go so bad.
No I think that would be great idea. your child would be with other children playing and he will get use of the idea on not being with you 24 hours a day. no she won't hate you explain to her that you have to work. and that you love her very much, and that you will never leave her. tell her that she will have other children to play with. and she can always tell you what she did at the nursery.
There is nothing to worry about if you have a good childcare provider. Yes it will be slightly dificult at first, especially if your child is in the seperation anxiety stage, but they will have a great time and be just fine while you work. It will take a little while for them to gain the concept of when we go here, mommy leaves me to play, then she comes back for me. Ultimately, just getting out the door of the childcare facility will be difficult at first, for a while, but your child will be just fine and when you go pick her up at the end of the day, she'll be so excited to see you. One thing you can try to do is try to take her to the nursery then leave her for an hour or so, before you actually start working, this will help ease her transition into this routine and help get her used to being in this new environment. I did this with my children and it helped them out tremendously. Also I noticed a big difference in my children and their interactions with other children, it helped get them ready for the social environment of preschool and elementary school. So, your daughter may be upset at first, but she will not hate you and she will be just fine. Best wishes.
No! Actually after a couple of days, she will probably LOVE going there. Having a pack of toddlers to run with and get into trouble all day with is more fun than old mommy lol! My daughter already does that! She does go to my mother's during the day, but she is just with my parents, so it's still just "boring" I think for her. We get to a friend's house who has kids, or a cousin's house...she runs like a wild animal! She plays ball, and empties the toy box, climbs on the couch (and tried to jump off lol). If I try to hold her or kiss her while she's busy, she throws a FIT and will just scream and want down. You're child will be fine and probably better adjusted since there is only a couple years until school too. She'll be social and probably learn more too. Good Luck!
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