15.mo. old daughter help!!!?

she is getting into this stage where all she does is wine and cry and she doesnt need anything so i don't understand she wants to be held constantly or shes squalling and she isn't wanting to sleep in her crib anymor she will cry forever and won't go to sleep and if i get her up then she will not go to sleep for sure why is she being so helpless when she used to play and walk around and she was content recently she has been going to the babysitters and she's great there why is she acting like this around me?

Answer:
Since she is going to a babysitter she feels she needs more attention from you. She just doesn't know how to express herself in a better way yet. Spend a little more time in the evening with her to reassure her that you love her. Give it some time it will pass.
b/c she knows you will baby her and she gets her way when whining?
Because she's a toddler. Trust me, I have 2 of my own, trying to understand toddler behavior is an exercise in futility. Ask your sitter if she's having naps and for how long. You can also try putting her to bed earlier. It sounds like she's tired and misses mommy. Be thankful she misses you and wants to be held. If that is what her problem is, it will calm down shortly.
I have had a daycare for 6 years and have two of my own children. This is a pretty typical stage. at daycare she is being played with by other children and kids are almost always different away from mom. I have told parents that I babysit for that your child had learned how to push your buttons. Do the best you can to encourage her to be good without losing your cool. This will pass and then you will enter another stage that will drive you crazy. Don't be hard on yourself or her she has yet developed the skills to express her feelings and crying and acting out is still a way of communicating. She probably just doesn't quite get why Anna at daycare plays endlessly and mom has stuff to do. Good luck.
This is probably just a stage. She probably just misses you when your not around and this is just her way of letting you know.
b/c she can
I had the same problem with my son about a year ago (he is three years old), if I read correctly she goes to daycare correct? She wants you attention at all times since she doesn’t see you during the day (my son was the same way) so what you can do is try include her in activities you do in the house example: let her help you clean the house, wash the dishes etc.
I allow my son to mop the bathroom floor (of course after I finish cleaning and mopping it myself) I make sure the rise out the mop and I give it to him and he is happy because he feels he is helping me. Also I incorporated story time after I wash him up and get his night clothes on, I put him in bed and a read him a book.

Hope it works if not I have one suggestion
She feels she does not get to spend enough time with you when she starts wining wanting held instead of holding her take her up to her room and play a game with her she will soon stop the wining because she will be spending quality time with her which is more important than quantity.
Because she has you beat and knows if she cries hard enough long enough you will give in.

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