My 13 mon old is not social could this be a problem?
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It could just be shyness.I wouldn't worry about Autism unless he is displaying other symptoms such as Self injurous behavior(head banging or hitting self), extreme preoccupation with one object,Not playing with toys properly(spinning car wheels instead of playing in usual manner) Spinning or rocking, Lack of eye contact, Not responding to his name when called, speech delay,limited interests. The thing about Autism is that no two people display all the same Symptoms. The symptoms the drs look for are limited interests, a delay in communication skills, prevalent and repetitive behavior,sudden severe tantrums,sensory overload,and insistence on routine and resistance to change. My 2 and ahalf year old son was diagnosed at 17 months and at 13 months he was ahappy outgoing little boy. And he and I have a wonderful bond and he is extremely affectionate . In other words I wouln't be alarmed Just because he is shy. It could be just that.If it turns out to be Autism, as devastating as it is is doesn't have to be scary.I love my son more than anything inthe world and am blessed to have such a wonderful child. it is stressful and overwhelming alot of times but I wouldn't change anything about him, including his Autism. If it turns out to be autism,just remember 2 things 1 he is still the same child as was before he was diagnosed and 2 try to focus on what you do have instead of what you don't. These children have personalities all there own and due to recent advances Autism no longer means a bleak future for all autistic children.Many do improve with therapy.But unless he has other symptoms I would not worry.If there are other symptoms the sooner he gets help the better his outcome will be. Early intervention is extremely important. Good luck to you and your son
he's probably a 'tard
Could be shyness. But not being a parent or teacher I would not give you a satisfying answer.
i read a news paper article that speaking to babies with a normal conversational vocabulary can increase their intelligence capibility. i hope everything works out for you!
ofcourse not! it is never bad have a shy little girl! sometimes they turn out getting into the less trouble (like me i'm outgoing, im ALWAYS introuble!)
relax mom. YOur tyke is doing fine.
He is being curious, exploring at his own rate. So long as he is active, bright eyed, eating well, responding to you, he's fine.
If you are truly concerned, mention it to your doctor.
My first born was and is like this. She is now 4 years old and enjoys being on the side lines. Although, she is very busy and very happy. Is he feeling bad that the other kids are doing something else? My daughter will come home and tell me everyhting that every kid did. She doesn't mind that she is not with the crowd. I think that she will grow up to be a leader and not follow the band wagon- and I like that and she does too.,
hes not that bad i am really anti social
and plus hes just a child
That's totally normal for his age. Kids are just not social until they are about 18 months old or so, and even then they mostly play side by side instead of together.
I would talk to the doctor about it, it's not serious and you can wait two weeks. He might not be social because you're at home and he has no playmates in his territory. I wouldn't worry too much, it'll come eventually but just for your peace of mind ask the doctor.
This is not a problem at all unless he is showing tendencies at home like not looking at you or talking to you. Until Children are around three they only parallel play, that is they only play near other children not with them. Sometime around two they realize other kids can be played with but it is still much easier to play by himself. So I doubt you have anything to worry about unless like I said he is not being social with you.
This is completely normal. Toddlers don't begin truly playing with other kids until they are around 2.5-3 years old. Prior to that they do what is called "parallel play." At this age, the play groups are for you and YOUR socialization, not his. :)
RELAX!! Don't worry about it! Don't push your child into situations he may not be comfortable with yet. Always set a good example so he can learn proper behavior by watching you deal with new people. Social behavior is learned and he may still prefer to observe for a while yet. Its okay and normal and nothing for Mom to worry about!
Kids go through phases. At some points they will be shy, others outgoing. Sometimes they want mom for a while, sometimes they want dad for a while. They explore to find their comfort zones and develop their own personalities. At 13 months old I wouldn't worry about it. If you find it becomes consistent as your child begins getting towards kindergarten age, you may want to look into ways to make them more comfortable with social situations.
If he is autisic he would not be bonding w/ you very well. Is he easily amused by 1 item for a long period of time (like a 6 m. old) then he may be if you answered yes to the above 2 questions. But I suggest you talk to his doctor if you still get no responce, call your local intermidiate school district (special needs school) they will test your child for any problems for free & if he needs any help, that will be free as well. They are super helpful & have a great staff & free!
At that age, most children play "near" other children - not with them. Your son is perfectly normal. If another child tries to play with him, he may get mad if the other child touches his toy. Sharing is a concept tough on 3- and 4-year-olds. He'll get there on his own timetable.
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