Had another miscarrige and have one question?
we are in shock again as we were looking forward to have this baby. we do not want to wait for several months to try again becaue there will be big gap between kids.we want to try again in march.should we do this if dr says you can try again after one normal cycle?can people tell their experience in this matter.
Answer:
If your doctor says it's okay for you to try again after a normal cycle, and you feel emotionally and physically ready (which no one here can tell you, only you can determine that) then go for it.
There's conflicting data about fertility following a miscarriage. Some studies have concluded that you are more likely to have another miscarriage right on the heels of a loss, while there's certainly anecdotable evidence suggesting increased fertility at this time. Personally, for me, those studies cancel one another out and I don't bother with them to guide me (I've had several losses myself).
If you miscarried late then there may be issues with letting your uterus heal and shrink back to its former size, but it sounds to me from your question as though it was not a late loss, and that is not an issue. If you had a D&C I would make sure your hcg levels are tracked back down to zero (if they go down but stableize, or fluctuate, that would suggest "retained products of conception" -- that the D&C didn't get all the tissue.) So assuming your hcg is down to zero and you don't need to wait for your uterus to recover from your last pregnancy, there is no reason why you would need to wait longer than the doctor suggested. Further, there are a lot of people (practitioners among them) who have said in no uncertain terms that, all else being equal, there is no need to wait for another cycle, either -- the reason that's suggested is generally for ease in dating a subsequent pregnancy.
My doctor was big on suggesting we wait for a few months, which, frankly, drove me crazy. If you feel ready after your next cycle, by all means, go for it. And GOOD LUCK!
If your doctor gives you the OK, then go for it!
you are more fertile after a miscarriage. as soon as you find out that you're pregnant again, go on total bed rest. pray and pray some more. Good Luck.
u can try when u feel just be patient u will get a baby and good luck
sorry for your lost
you are prob bleeding now like a period or heavier.. wail until you have another 'period' then that month try again so maybe a month or 6 weeks ... you have to give your body time to heal.. if they didnt tell you d & c the d meands dialate.. your cervix is bigger as if you had a baby.. (tech you did) i forgot what the c meant but wait until you go back for your checkup (if ther is one) then when the dr says that its ok then try again gl
My dr only told me to wait until after one regular cycle.
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