Can somebody please advise if I am silly,?

I have been trying to have a baby for 2 years, in that 2 years I have taken so many pregnancy tests, even if they are negative I either think its too early or the test is broken. I am shattered every month, & promise myself next month I wont fall for it again, I always seem to find symptoms, I am constantly phoning my 2 elder sisters & ask them if they had these symptoms. My periods are between 28-32 days, but this month I know I ovulated @ the right time, so I am assuming I should get my period on the 28th day which is tomorrow, am I crazy for doing this to myself & my husband & is it true that your periods come depending on the time of ovulation. I am in for another sad month.

Answer:
My first question to you is have you consulted with your doctor on this. He or she would be the first route to go. do either of you have any children?.as for your periods being between 28-32 days that does present a gray area for olvulation time. but in the same breath olvuation takes place over 5 day you have a window there. I think that you are putting a lot of stress on yourselves,which can affect the process. Another thing you need to consider is your age if you are an older couple 30's and have been trying for that long you may want to condiser having some testing done to make sure that there is nothing wrong with you or your husband.
Maybe it is time to get checked out? This constant stress will not improve your chances.
Unfortunatly no. periods come and go when they want to... just calm down dont think about it and itll come... too much stress can disrupt it all!
You should see a fertility doctor, they can help you with ways to get pregnant.
It is time to see a fertility specialist.
If you have been trying for that long, ,maybe you need some help. You and you husband should both be tested to see if you can even have children.the doc will help you from there.
what is your question?
Well you ovulate on the 10th to 14th day after the FIRST day of your period. Not all those days but one of them. It is hard to pin point it down to the exact day and I don't recommend you do because you have less of a chance of getting pregnant.

What I did was marked down the first day of period...the day that I was done bleeding we started having sex every day until like the 16th day just to make sure. Now sperm can live in side you for up to a week. So if you do it everyday you know there is alot up there and when the egg drops you will have an extremely high chance of getting pregnant. And by having sex a few days after is just a precaution to say hey just incase i don't ovulate exactly...

It has to do with when you start your period. YOu won't ovulate until that day around 14 days after your first day of your period...even if you cycle is a certain amount of days...it is 14 days after the first day of your period. Even if you have your peroid two weeks after you last period...it has to do with the blood leaving your uterus and a new lining forming that is supposed to be getting ready for a egg to implant its self.

This worked for us the second month we tried. I suggest that you should try this.

Good luck!

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