2nd please sum1 help?
i know this sounds bad but i am preg and i slept with 2 people around about the same time..i slept with 1 before my period and 1 at the end of my period..the mid-wife said that i am 14 weeks preg from my SCAN! and i worked it out that, that was from the 1st day of my period..so which 1 is more likely to be the dad ? but also i was sleepin with the 1 that im seeing for about a year and never got preg!! please someone help..and if your not going to say anything nice dont say anything at all!! x
Answer:
i would say your best bet is to wait until after the child is born and have a paternity test done -- then there is absolutely no question. make sure you let both potential fathers know that you're going to do that -- so they have time to mentally prepare for being a father, but also understand that they may not be.. good luck to you and one of them!
What I said before. Ultrasound estimates are still just estimates and are generally +/- a week or more.
So if you slept with two guys in one week there is no way to know.
It is more likely the one from after your period, but not guaranteed.
You will need a DNA test.
what do you need help with exactly?
go to http://www.mybirthcare.com/calculator... and put in either your due date or your first day of your last period and it will give you a conception date and maybe that will help.
Good luck
I would say go with the first one. But I don't want to jump to any conclusions. You may want to see if you can get a paternity test right away. Whatever it may be I hope all works well for you. Best of luck and congratulations!
More than likely the first guy you slept with is the father. But that is not always true. The best way to take care of it is after the baby is born do a par native test. best luck I know it can be hard. Been there myself.
It doesn't matter if the person didn't get you pregnant for a year, he could still be the father. Sometimes women have what is called implant bleeding. They mistake it for a period. Could this have been what you are calling your period? If the ultrasound shows that you are 14 weeks pregnant I would go with that. They are really acurate. I knew the date I concieved and the ultrasound was acurate to the day. Keep in mind that pregnancy is calculated form the first day of your period, even though the egg is not fertilized untl two weeks after the start of your period.
Did you use any sort of protection with either one? Did they both ejaculate inside you? I'd try to figure out all the possibilities. I'm not sure what to tell you, except that I bet it's the one you slept with before; however, I hope I'm wrong for your sake.
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